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		<title>I Love &#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 23:12:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sally</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[when he pulls in me really tight when we&#8217;re sleeping. when he kisses my neck. how he sometimes just holds my face. how excited he gets to cook something interesting. that he bought me girly slippers for when I&#8217;m over. the way he looks in the shower. the half smile he gives me when we <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=theblogofshame.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9787240&amp;post=473&amp;subd=theblogofshame&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Momentum</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 17:14:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In a previous post I spoke about Good Will&#8217;s potential; well that potential has become momentum. For the past four months I have been spending time with an incredibly special man. He&#8217;s kind, funny, smart, nerdy, considerate, and generally, just the best man I have ever dated. We&#8217;ve had roadbumps, that&#8217;s for sure, but here&#8217;s <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=theblogofshame.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9787240&amp;post=455&amp;subd=theblogofshame&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Two Stories</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jan 2012 05:45:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[After several dates with Good Will, my motto has become, &#8216;We&#8217;ll see.&#8217; The only reason is he is &#8230; complicated. And I know we all come with baggage and we all have issues from relationships past, but it&#8217;s difficult to remember that in the moment. When something difficult is being discussed, or he does something <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=theblogofshame.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9787240&amp;post=457&amp;subd=theblogofshame&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>That&#8217;s Odd, He Has Potential</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2012 05:37:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I went on a local OkCupid date, the first ever. Can we talk about how proud I am that I&#8217;m finally exploring, and having a little success in the local, dating market? Action in your own bed is nice! And how great would it be to fall for a boy that lives a taxi ride <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=theblogofshame.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9787240&amp;post=445&amp;subd=theblogofshame&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Skype me this, Skype me that</title>
		<link>http://theblogofshame.wordpress.com/2011/12/15/skype-me-this-skype-me-that/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 02:40:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sally</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Ho&#039; Plan]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[International Adventures]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Scandalous Goodness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[berlin]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blue eyes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cyber Fun]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I went on a date with a cute German while I was in Berlin. He was tall, had beautiful blue eyes, and spoke great English. It was a nice evening, that ended in my hotel room, just short of sex. The next day, I accidentally ran into him. (No, seriously, I was waiting for some <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=theblogofshame.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9787240&amp;post=432&amp;subd=theblogofshame&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Hey Jealousy</title>
		<link>http://theblogofshame.wordpress.com/2011/10/30/hey-jealousy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 16:59:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sally</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Mindless Flirting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Complicated]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dancefloor Hussy]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jealousy can be so satisfying. I was at a nightclub opening recently and since I don&#8217;t do that sort of thing often, I put my best foot forward. My entire group of friends were going, this was a night out for all of us. My outfit for the night: red scandlously short shorts, body suit, <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=theblogofshame.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9787240&amp;post=434&amp;subd=theblogofshame&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Hello Europe</title>
		<link>http://theblogofshame.wordpress.com/2011/10/19/hello-europe/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 05:15:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sally</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Blah Blah Blah]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[International Adventures]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mindless Flirting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Scandalous Goodness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Croatian Men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dancefloor scandals]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Travel Adventures]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yes, OkCupid&#8217;s European men were fun. They were cute and successful and well, European. But it was two Americans who gave me a little gusto, which has lasted me until now. You see, I made a couple of male friends in Europe. These two dudes were traveling together through Europe for a couple of weeks. <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=theblogofshame.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9787240&amp;post=430&amp;subd=theblogofshame&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>So much to tell</title>
		<link>http://theblogofshame.wordpress.com/2011/10/13/so-much-to-tell/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Oct 2011 01:36:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sally</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[The Land of Make Believe]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have been incredibly (boy) busy these past few months. From the scandalous goodness of a dancefloor makeouts and inappropriate Skype calls with international men, to local boys causing endless frustration and a pretty decent proposal from a man of interest, the past few months have given me much to write about. Though very little <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=theblogofshame.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9787240&amp;post=422&amp;subd=theblogofshame&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Dating in International Waters</title>
		<link>http://theblogofshame.wordpress.com/2011/09/18/dating-in-international-waters/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Sep 2011 02:45:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sally</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Amsterdam Dating]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I loathe online dating. LOATHE IT. Though I&#8217;m witty and cute in my profile, very few boys ever seem to message me. I&#8217;ve never expected anything from online dating and I continue to keep my hopes in check. But when I was planning my latest solo international adventure, I thought maybe there was a place <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=theblogofshame.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9787240&amp;post=411&amp;subd=theblogofshame&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>GUEST POST: Rebound or Real Thing?</title>
		<link>http://theblogofshame.wordpress.com/2011/06/24/reboundor_real_thing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 17:45:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sally</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been almost a month since I ended things with Val. That first week, I was a mess. Sally, among other female friends, were at the receiving end of text messages that, reading back now, are painful, &#8220;Who breaks their own heart? Me.&#8221; Week two was considerably better &#8211; no random outbursts of tears and <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=theblogofshame.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9787240&amp;post=402&amp;subd=theblogofshame&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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